Wiccan Wonders: Into the Forest Once More
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What We’re Not Starting years and
years ago, misconceptions were created about Wiccans and witchcraft. This
page is dedicated to the silly, weird, and even offensive things that
Wiccans are thought to be or do. I’ll list the misconception and details
about it, and then explain why it’s just not true.
 | Misconception #1: |
Wiccans are Satanists or Satan-worshippers.
Truth: Let me start with Satanists. Yes, Satanism is a real religion, as
real as any religion there is, and yes, they have the reputation for
being "evil." First of all, I’ll point out that Wicca and Satanism have not
real "ties", belief-wise. Therefore, Wiccans aren’t Satanists and Satanists
aren’t Wiccans. Secondly, from what I’ve heard, Satanists are not
evil. I’m not 100% sure what they believe exactly, but they don’t all go
around killing babies, trying to hurt people and whatnot. They are part of a
very real religion and shouldn’t be looked down upon by so many just because
we’ve been told they all worship the "Prince of Darkness and Evil".
Now to my favorite part of this myth: Wiccans being Satan-worshippers.
Here’s the short answer to this one: Wiccans don’t believe in "Satan" or any
other "evil being" like it. How could they worship something they don’t
believe exists? The longer answer is something like this, though: Not only
do Wiccans not believe in Satan, but they tend to love to point out the fact
of the matter: Christians made up Satan. Satan was created long, long ago by
the Christians that so desperately wanted to convert all the Pagans. So,
what did they do to make the "switch" easier? They took the figure that the
Pagans believed in (The Horned God, whose horns represent animal life, hunt,
etc. and isn’t red at all) and perverted it. They told the Pagans that their
god was evil and tricking them all until the Pagans were convinced it was
true. Well, either convinced or afraid that they’d be killed by Christians
if they didn’t agree. Either way, though, it’s still the truth. Satan was
never real and I’m surprised that so many people think he is. Don’t get me
wrong, I don’t look down on people, like Christians, that do believe he is
real and ruler of some demonic underground Hell, but it’s kind of silly to
me that they don’t realize that he was made to look like the Horned God.
 | Misconception #2: |
Wiccans cast spells to hurt people, animals, etc. either mentally or
physically.
Okay, this is probably one of the funniest myths if you know the truth.
Yes, some witches (practitioners of witchcraft) cast spells to harm, but
Wiccans don’t. I’ve even heard it bluntly put as this: "If you try to cause
harm to other people with magick, you’re not Wiccan and can’t consider
yourself one." Now, I know that there are probably those of you reading
gasping in shock and anger, saying, "Not a Wiccan?! How dare you tell me I’m
not! I can cast any spell I want and I’m still Wiccan!!" but the truth is,
no, you’re not if you intentionally try to harm people. Wiccans are Wiccans
partly because they follow the Wiccan Rede ("An’ it harm none, do what you
will.") and the Threefold Law. They are the Wiccans’ rules and if you don’t
follow them, you’re breaking the rules of the religion. Let me point out,
though, that I’m not saying to be Wiccan you have to be perfect. Everyone
will end up hurting someone one way of another. It’s unavoidable. Just
because you break up with your boyfriend or girlfriend and this hurts them
doesn’t mean the pain you caused will bite you three times back. I think
that the Gods will understand and not send karma to bite you. But to be
Wiccan you have to not try to hurt people, animals, etc. There’s a
difference between accidentally bumping into someone and hurting them and
stabbing them with a pencil. As long as you really try to be kind and not
hurt people, you do, indeed, have the potential to be Wiccan.
 | Misconception #3: |
Wiccans cast love spells to make people love them.
Heh, yeah. That would be no. Despite the reputation Wiccans have
gotten, Wiccans don’t cast love spells to make someone like other people or
themselves. Some witches may, but Wiccan witches don’t. Why? Look carefully
at the Wiccan Rede and what casting a spell to make someone love you does.
The Wiccan Rede says that you can’t hurt anyone in anyway. What does the
spell do? It takes away freewill. Taking away freewill is hurtful and isn’t
to be done, according to Wicca.
Let me further explain this, though, to take away any confusion. Wiccans
don’t cast spells to make people love someone else, but they do, however,
cast love spells. These love spells, though, don’t affect freewill. They
tend to do things like make you confident enough to ask the person out,
attract your "soul mate" to you, let your best qualities shine, etc. They
are meant to help love and the Wiccan’s love life without forcing anyone to
do anything. There is also a type of magick I myself have not used (for
obvious reasons) and that is sex magick. Yes, it does exist and I consider
it a form of love magick. I won’t get into things like that here, though. If
you want to learn more about those types of magick, do an online search and
look for a reliable site.
 | Misconception #4: |
Wiccans cast curses or hexes on people.
Of all the Wiccans I’ve talked to, not one of them has believed in the
concept of "hexes" or "curses." Also, Wiccan rules forbid harmful magick.
See Misconception #2 for more info.
 | Misconception #5: |
Wiccans sacrifice babies/animals/blood/etc.
Really? Because I thought the Wiccan Rede applied to Wiccans.
No, Wiccans don’t sacrifice things. Killing babies and animals isn’t a
Wiccan thing to do. As for blood sacrifices, though, it depends. Now, don’t
get all scared and try to "hide your veins from the Wiccan" because I said
that. Just read on, please. When it comes to blood sacrifices, Wiccans tend
to be split. Some Wiccans think that using their own blood in rituals is
powerful and helpful. Some think to get the blood, you have to hurt
yourself, and that’s "Un-Wiccan." Some even think that you can use menstrual
blood (if you’re female) in spells! Here’s my view on it: I personally would
never cut or otherwise hurt myself, especially to get blood for something
like that. I don’t, however, condemn those that do as "Un-Wiccan," though.
If they are comfortable with it, they can go right ahead. I don’t agree with
cutting yourself for other reasons, though. In rituals with blood, the
practitioner may prick themselves. Cutting more than that, especially for no
reason, is against the Wiccan Rede in my opinion, though.
As for using menstrual blood… Well, I probably wouldn’t (I think it’s a
little…dirty, if you will), but I realize that blood is powerful and say,
"Go ahead!" to any females who use this. It’s naturally collected and made
and doesn’t hurt to get (well, if you don’t count cramps), so why not if
you’re careful? Like I said, though, I find it a little strange and wouldn’t
do it myself. You’ll have to find other places for information on that if
you’re interested.
 | Misconception #6: |
Wiccans are fakes that use tricks to get money.
I won’t deny it, some people use Wicca as a means to get money. I’ll say
this, though: if they are tricking people into giving up money, they
probably aren’t really Wiccan. It’s true that some people charge money for
use of abilities (Tarot readings, etc.) but that’s because Wiccans have
expenses, too, just like everyone else. As long as the prices aren’t
outrageous, I think it’s fine. Feel free to disagree, though. That’s just my
opinion. As for using tricks, like I said, only someone who’s not Wiccan
would trick someone with fake "magick."
Another comment on this I’d like to add: some people would say that this
isn’t a myth, that Wiccans don’t do real magick because magick is fake. I
won’t argue with them. I acknowledge that many people think magick is a joke
and totally unreal and they’re allowed to think that. As long as they
aren’t harassing people with their opinion, they can have it and say it.
 | Misconception #7: |
Wiccans only think what they do because they have mental problems and/or
are on drugs.
Okay, it’s true that there are some Wiccans that do drugs or have mental
problems. But so do people of every other religion. Most Wiccans believe
what they do because it’s just what they believe. You don’t have to be crazy
or drugged up or anything to believe what Wiccans do.
 | Misconception #8: |
Wiccans are anti-Christian (a.k.a. Wiccans hate Christians).
I’ll admit it; some Christians may not be a Wiccan’s favorite people. But
that usually only applies to extremist and mean Christians,
the ones that judge, discriminate, harass, and threaten Wiccans. We as
Wiccans don’t really "hate" anyone, especially based on religion. We don’t
care what religion you are; as long as you’re a good person, we have the
potential to befriend you. Most Wiccans will not hate you or be cruel to you
because you’re Christian. This actually leads to me the next misconception,
one that people think may "justify" Wiccans not liking Christians:
 | Misconception #9: |
Many Wiccans/Witches were killed in the Burning Times (the time in
history when "witch-hunts" took place and people were burned, hung, etc.).
Although many people, even some Wiccans and Witches, think this is true,
it’s reality time. Of all the people killed in the Burning Times, it’s
highly unlikely that even one was a real witch. A very, very few may have
been Pagan, but probably not. The people killed were just people that were
disliked by someone or people that had a knack for using herbs for healing.
Real witches probably didn’t even exist in America yet and the only Pagans
were most likely just the Native Americans there. As for there being
Wiccans, the people that think this need to do more research. Wicca as a
religion wasn’t created until the 1950s. It’s based on ancient practices,
but there was not such thing as a Wiccan in that time.
How this relates to the 8th Misconception: those that believe
that witches and Wiccans/Pagans were killed in the Burning Times blame
current Christians for this. True, some Christians now-a-days may still call
you evil if you’re a Witch, Wiccan, or Pagan, but they didn’t do this to any
actual Wiccans, Witches, or Pagans back in the day. The argument that they
"hurt Wiccans/Witches/Pagans first" can’t be backed by the Burning Times.
 | And, last but not least, Misconception #10: |
There are "Wiccans" out there that are actually *gasp* Fluffy Bunnies!
I had to put my thoughts on the "Fluffy Bunny" in here somewhere. I know
that the views on the "fluffy bunny" differ from Wiccan to Wiccan. Some
think they’re every real and very annoying, some think they are misguided,
and some think they aren’t even real. That’s one aspect that splits the
views. The other is if the term should be used or not. Those who like the
term use it a lot; some even seem to overuse it. Others don’t like the term
and find it offensive. The rest tend to think it’s offensive, but aren’t
afraid to utter it every now and again. Personally, I fall into that last
category.
Let me explain what a "fluffy bunny" is for those who don’t know.
Typically a fluffy bunny Wiccan is one that says they’re Wiccan but don’t
actually understand it. Maybe they think it makes them cool, maybe they want
to cast bad magick, or maybe it’s to scare people. Sometimes it’s just as
simple as they only read one book or one website and think that they are a
Wiccan expert. They’re views also tend to be singular; what they say is
right and they won’t change. These are the Wiccans that annoy the most other
Wiccans because they give the Craft a bad name. I personally think that
yelling at all of these poor "Wiccans" isn’t what we should do, though. Yes,
I think they do exist, but what help is it to call them stupid or fake? Then
again, will sitting back and letting them continue this way help, either?
Although it’d be hard, helping them, informing them, is probably the best
course of action. If you do, you’ll find out what kind of "fluffy bunny"
they are: one that does want to learn Wicca, but hasn’t gotten very far,
yet, or one that thinks Wicca is something it’s not. By explaining what’s
true and what’s not, but can hopefully try to weed out the truly non-Wiccan
ones and help the rest find out if Wicca is for them – or not.
There are many other sites with info on the "fluffy bunny." All of them
will have a different opinion on the little critters, so read all you can
and then make an informed choice as to what you think of them.
 | Conclusion: |
Ignorance, harassment and disagreeing.
I was told by another person that knows about this website that I should
include this part. It’s an important part, so please do read it. In this
conclusion, I want to show the difference between people who are ignorant of
what Wicca is, people that are harassing you, and people who just disagree
with Wicca. It’s true: Wiccans and Pagans are harassed and discriminated
against all the time. There are many religious people out there that think
Wicca is wrong. But Wiccans must realize that we cannot be angry with all
of them. Here are the three types of people who tend not to like Wicca and
why what they say should or should not bother a Wiccan.
 | The Ignorant: The Ignorant is that person in your town that hears that
you’re Wiccan and suddenly think you’re evil. They may be friend or foe,
but they don’t understand why you’d be Wiccan and may think lowly of you.
These are the people that don’t know what Wicca is, what it represents,
etc. Should you let them get to you? No. So they don’t want to make the
effort to see what Wicca really is. That’s their loss. Maybe if they did
the research they’d see you aren’t to be feared or hated. But they won’t.
Just let them live with that, then. As long as they aren’t saying cruel,
hateful things to you or harassing you (please read on to find out how to
know if it’s harassment or not), you should just leave them be and get on
with you life. |
 | The Harasser/Discriminator: Like I said, it is true. Wiccans are
harassed, hurt, and discriminated against frequently by people who believe
the misconceptions. If you think someone is harassing you or
discriminating against you (in the workplace, at school, anywhere!),
please direct yourself to How to Fight
Discrimination in Your Area and Life , another page on this site. It
will give you information on how to safely avoid the harassment, legally
stop discrimination and more. Please read it even if you’re not having
these done to you because I will also cover the difference between the
nest person on this list (the Disagree-r) and someone who’s actually
dangerous or trampling on your rights. |
 | The Disagree-r: (Fellow Wiccans, please read this part if anything
to make sure that you’re not hurting people!) Ah, the Disagree-r. How
long you’re suffered at the hands of ignorant Wiccans. "Wait- ignorant
Wiccans?" you may be asking. Yes, people, that’s what I said. Open your
eyes and realize that some Wiccans are doing bad without realizing it:
trying to bring lawsuits against those that aren’t trying to cause harm!
The common mistake I’ve seen now-a-days is Wiccans getting too paranoid
and blurring the fine line between Harassers and Discriminators and those
that just don’t agree with Wicca. People are allowed to not think Wicca is
a good religion. They can even think it’s wrong because it’s not
Christian! Realize, friends, that some Christians don’t hate Wicca because
they believe the lies that Wiccans are bad people, they just think that
it’s against their God because, according to the Bible, it is! There is a
big difference between someone saying that Wicca is bad (which may offend
you) and a business owner not hiring Wiccans because they don’t like
Wiccans. This is against the law. Telling you that they don’t like Wicca
isn’t. As long as they are not physically harming or harassing you
constantly or very badly, they can think what they want; it’s their right!
Please, please, please, next time you think that someone is discriminating
against or harassing you, think it over carefully. Are they taking your
rights away with what they’re doing? Or are they just expressing their
opinion? |
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